but here’s jezebel’s take on marital infidelity…….

Deep emotional intimacy with another person combined with dishonesty with the person you’re not only supposed to tell the truth to but to wantto tell the truth to leads to more dishonesty, less intimacy, more estrangement and finally to those asswipes who tell women like me in bars, “My wife doesn’t understand me.” To every guy that has ever said that to me, I would like to now reply: she doesn’t understand you because youstopped allowing her to. Every time you lied or prevaricated or didn’t want to deal with her reaction to something hard, you alone denied yourself to her. And the answer to finding understanding doesn’t lie between anyone’s legs, it lies in breaking down the wall you two created.

 

um, yeah. you figure out your shit first, THEN come give me your crazy ass plea for love sometime. just sayin’..